I'm not really sure I'm understanding your scenario...
You have a phisical pc with windows server 2008 and 2 VMs.
Then you have a notebook with 2 NICs.
You want to connect your notebook to the first PC and with the VMs in there, right?
If so, you first need to select one of the two NICs on your notebook, usually you are connected via Wireless or Cable, not both at the same time. Then, if your IP is on the same network as the server is, you just type the IP and you can reach it (if firewall is set up properly). If the IP is not on the same network, you need a router.